If you’re a woman working in healthcare and constantly asking yourself “Why am I so tired all the time?”—you’re not alone. Burnout isn’t a personal failure. It’s the natural outcome of a system that conditions women to ignore their needs and push through exhaustion.
We normalize skipping breaks, surviving off caffeine and granola bars, and saying “yes” to every extra shift—even when we’re running on empty. But none of that is sustainable.
Let’s break it down.
You keep saying yes to extra shifts—even when you’re exhausted
You don’t schedule consistent self-care or rest into your week
Your body is undernourished with quick snacks instead of real meals
You sleep less than 7 hours most nights, then wonder why you can’t focus
You rely on coffee more than water or hydration
You skip movement or workouts because you’re already so depleted
Dear women in healthcare—
Not taking a lunch break is not a badge of honor. It’s a red flag.
Coffee isn’t fuel. Burnout isn’t “just part of the job.”
And that bone-deep exhaustion? It doesn’t mean you’re doing it right—it means the system has trained you to ignore your own humanity.
You give care, compassion, and presence to your patients every single day. So here’s the question: When’s the last time you gave that same level of care to yourself?
You would never tell your patient to push through dehydration, stress, and mental fatigue.
So why are you doing it to yourself?
That constant cycle of go-go-go, where your charting stacks up, your stomach growls, and your mental load spills into your off-hours—it’s not sustainable. It’s not noble. It’s burnout in disguise.
Your worth is not measured by how much you suffer.
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