Sounds backwards, right?
But let me explain...
In healthcare, weâre conditioned to keep pushing.
To stay busy.
To hustle harder.
To always be doing something âproductive.â
But if youâve ever tried to run on empty for too long, you already know how this ends:
Burnout. Exhaustion. Resentment. And no real progress.
I used to think stopping would slow me down.
But now I know: Rest, recovery, and boundaries are what keep me moving.
If I donât take time to pull back and reset, nothing flows. Iâm just spinning my wheels.
But when I intentionally slow downâwhen I sleep, reflect, plan, and restore myselfâI move forward faster, with clarity and energy.
This isnât laziness. Itâs strategy.
This is what a soft life looks li...
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For All the Moms In Healthcare
Is it actually possible for moms in healthcare to feel present with their kids?
The short answer? Yesâbut not by doing more.
Many moms in healthcare find themselves caught between two worlds.
One moment you're giving your all to patients, the next youâre homeâbut emotionally drained, mentally overloaded, and struggling to reconnect with your family.
And even on your days off, it doesnât always get easier.
Youâve probably already tried:
Getting up earlier
Planning "quality time"
Mastering time management
Multitasking everything
But the truth is⊠the exhaustion and guilt never fully go away.
Thatâs because the problem isnât your effortâitâs the expectation that you have to be everything to everyone, all the time.
The real shi...
Here are 3 mindset shifts that have massively improved my life as a nurse practitioner âand they can change yours, too.
If youâve ever felt like youâre constantly working but never getting ahead financially, youâre not alone. Many women in healthcare feel stuck in a cycle of picking up overtime just to keep up with expenses. But what if there was another way?
Letâs talk about the shifts that can help you build wealth, reduce stress, and take back control of your money.
You donât need a six-figure tech job or a finance degree to build wealthâyou just need a system.
The key isnât necessarily making more money. Itâs about managing what you already earn with intention.
When you know where your money is going, have a simple system to fol...
The secret is out: I am completely rewriting the rules for women in healthcare who want more.
More freedom.
More energy.
More say in how their career supports their lifeânot steals from it.
I used to believe I had to be the âeasygoing one.â
You know the type:
The one who picks up all the extra shifts
The one who stays quiet when things feel unfair
The one who puts everyone elseâs needs before her own
I said yes when I wanted to say no.
Avoided hard conversations.
Let resentment simmer under the surface while I smiled through it all.
The result?
I was burned out. Drained. And quietly miserable.
One day it hit meâno one was coming to rescue me from this cycle.
I had to stop waiting for someone else to notice ho...
If youâre a woman working in healthcare and constantly asking yourself âWhy am I so tired all the time?ââyouâre not alone. Burnout isnât a personal failure. Itâs the natural outcome of a system that conditions women to ignore their needs and push through exhaustion.
We normalize skipping breaks, surviving off caffeine and granola bars, and saying âyesâ to every extra shiftâeven when weâre running on empty. But none of that is sustainable.
Letâs break it down.
You keep saying yes to extra shiftsâeven when youâre exhausted
You donât schedule consistent self-care or rest into your week
Your body is undernourished with quick snacks instead of real meals
You sleep less than 7 hours most nights, then wonder why you canât focus
Y...
For years, I thought exhaustion, anxiety, and missing out on lifeâs biggest moments were just part of the job.
I worked hard. I picked up extra shifts. I told myself Iâd rest âlater.â
But then my body gave me no choice.
The burnout hit me hard.
And my physical health had already deteriorated without me even noticing.
Thatâs when it hit me:
If I didnât make a change, this job would break me.
I stopped waiting for the system to get better.
Instead, I:
Set strong boundaries around work
Took control of my finances so I didnât rely on overtime
Explored career options that aligned with my values and life
A...
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How can women in healthcare find jobs that align with their personal values and lifestyle?
So many women in healthcare think they have to fit their lives around a rigid jobâbut it doesnât have to be that way.
It starts with getting crystal clear on what actually matters most to you.
When I coach women through career transitions, we always begin with their top three core values.
Yours might be:
Health
Peace
A slower, simpler lifestyle
Flexibility
Time with your kids
Community and connection
Knowing these values helps guide all life decisionsânot just career ones.
Once you're clear on your values, make a SHORT list (3â5 features MAX) of what you're really looking for in a role.
Here a...
Did you know financial health is part of holistic health?
Holistic means whole. Whole-person wellness.
And guess what? That includes your money.
As women in healthcare, we are trained for so many things:
đ©ș Managing life-threatening emergencies
â° Juggling back-to-back 12-hour shifts
đźâđš Pushing through exhaustion to care for everyone else
But when it comes to financial health?
Weâre taught nothing.
This lack of financial education keeps so many smart, capable, compassionate women stuck in cycles of:
Avoiding bank statements
Feeling ashamed or overwhelmed
Taking on more shifts or degrees, hoping more income = less stress
But here's the truth:
You canât outwork poor money habits.
Just like you canât fix burnout with caffeine.
Want to know the biggest life hack?
(Leaning in like Iâm about to tell you a secretâŠ)
Real self-care isnât face masks or bubble baths.
Itâs healing your nervous system.
Itâs learning to prioritize your own healthâbefore your job, your patients, your charts, your to-do list.
Donât get me wrong. Bubble baths and lavender candles? Lovely. But theyâre surface-level if your nervous system is stuck in fight-or-flight. If your body is running on survival mode, no amount of scented anything will fix the core issue.
What actually helps?
Breathwork
Meditation
Boundaries (real ones!)
Intentionally slowing down
I used to think exhaustion was just part of the job.
But hereâs the truth:
Chronic exhaustion is your nervous system screaming for help.
Itâs not a bad...
"Iâve coached over 100 nurses in my life."
And if there's one thing I know for sure?
Women in healthcare are experts at pushing through.
Weâre used to figuring things out on our own.
We take the extra shifts, ignore the exhaustion, and convince ourselves that if we just keep hustling a little longer, something will give.
Sometimes that hustle looks like switching jobs.
Sometimes itâs chasing another degree.
Sometimes it's just grinding harder, hoping something will finally click.
But the truth?
Weâre not fixing the problem. Weâre just running in circles.
More drained. More resentful. More stuck than ever.
Thatâs where coaching comes in.
Not as another thing to âdo,â but as a strategy to actually transform how you show up in your life.
Coachin...
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